Saturday 26 January 2013

Friendship: Never explain it

You hug them ,beat them without any reason and the only sentence you can except "Mar sale jitna mar sakta he ,bad me jab mera bari ayega beta to tu gaya" and they will not going to forgot it ,they know when they will back into the pavilion  and will give you the same treat whether you like it or not. You know you can ask them to ‘shut up’ or wake them up at midnight for help…But, is it possible that sometimes we take this loving relationship a little too casually.  You always have so much to talk about with your friends. It really doesn't matter what you say, it's just being together that matters. . . In Class XII, they helped you to attract towards to your  girl and get the dump question papers and with the solutions or nehi mila to "chal chill marte hein , ho jayega yar last moment pein" . In graduation they  will tease you and linked with a girl/girls to whom probably you don't know even  and they will not going to shut up their mouth till you really loved to that girl and after Graduation they will  tell you ‘she didn’t deserve you’ every time your girl ditched you. And at last  they went out of their way so that you could marry the one you loved and were the happiest when your baby called them ‘unceel’ The definition of a friend may change at different stages of our life, but the importance of a friend remains unchanged throughout the years. They will accept you what you are. Don’t expect them to change for you.  Respect your friends’ point of view. Try to keep your cool when they are angry. Also, try to be with them not only when you need them but also when they need you. . Always guide and stop them when they go aside.But 90cent it will not work because they are what they are be but try it sometimes it worked. Don’t fight over small issues. Be understanding when your friends come up with a last minute change in plans,particularly in Birthday parties And if it’s you who changes the plan, learn to say sorry. . Your friends might not want to share everything Understand their feelings. Don’t be dominating . Never betray your friends’ trust.  Keeping in touch kyun ki "har friends jaruri hota he yar"… Howsoever far or busy you might be.  Call once a week or twice. It does not take too long to connect hearts. Keep in touch through brief messages left on answering machines or SMSs. . This will make them feel included in your happiness. Why do friendships break? You were best of friends and never had an argument before. Then how did the friendship break? Misunderstanding and miscommunication can separate even the closest of friends. Generally the issues are trivial, which if not resolved immediately, may result in break-ups.  In friendships that break, either both or one of the friends eventually becomes short-tempered, uses rough language and gives less time to the other. This communication gap creates space for misinterpretations between the two.”  academic level or job, can lead to breaking of bonds. Setting limits… For maintaining long term friendship set certain limits. For eg a friend can never make it to the end of the month on a budget and you end up paying his bills. But this may not be a long-term solution. In friendship a balance must be maintained.  Your friend is someone who doesn’t hesitate before telling you your follies and is the first one to walk side by side with you, be it sorrow or fun.  Let’s simply make a promise never to hurt a friend! that i have made the mistakes by hurting some of my best Friends. Sorry my friends.But i wish you good luck for your best future ,hope someday we will ............





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Friday 25 January 2013

EVen THis PAss AWay: The Real Fact


 I am not a philosopher to tell you whether it is right or wrong, also can't say to follow it ,it's my thoughts which I want to share with you.I know you are in confusing with the fact that even this will pass away ? But its true and its the rule of the Nature . No human beings want to leave their happy moments ,our pride moments and the moments which make us special because we are so selfish. But everything is uncertain by rule . Nothing is constant .So don't have to fear anything. Everyone should  to face the consequences but take it as a challenge .If I say what is life? its nothing but ,Life=happy + sorrow + fear. The persons who are in a big trouble ,say when a graduate struggles for a job,when a person struggle to stand his/her family ,their thought is directed to "oh God!!! why this happen to me ,why not to others". Forgot others just focus on your work? What you have did and what need to be do to take out from this situation.Accept ,watch it with eagle eye and quickly find a way. Live with the present ,take the challenges ,utilize the opportunity that you have and let the success to kiss your feet.

Someone says..
" You can't go through life protecting yourself from everything; you have to take chances ,because if you don't then you might as well not be living."

This is for you.